21 April 2013

Pamper evenings/ positiv outlook

Heelllooo,
we all know this days, when we are not feeling too comptable in our skins. You just had a very stressful day, a argument with your friend or you think that on this day nothing fits right. On these days the best way to feel better again is just to have a pamper evening. Take a bath with some candles and some nice relaxing music, crap yourself a little bit of sweet (we all know that this will be chocolate! :)), put a facemask on and just lay in bed and don't think about anything. At this evenings we just have to come down and put all the bad thought, the pressure, all the worrys and everything we have to handle with everyday away. Even if we feel so worst, we just have to try to feel better again.
Not only on evenings like this we have to treat ourself nice, no, we should treat ourself ALWAYS nice! I know that this is sooo hard and nobody will ever make this happen. But why do we telling us what we don't have, what we can't do and always see in other persons things we would love to have and we would love to do? Why don't we see what we can do the best?
Every person is special in their own way and we should understand this and figure out what we can do the best and whats amazing/ nice about ourself and try to focus on this stuff. And not on all the stuff we will never achieve and reach.
I know very good that it's soooo easy to say this and their will be times you will concentrate yourself just on the bad things, but as long as we remember that there are good things about everyone it's fine. I don't won't to say everybody has to walk around extremly arrogant because they just concentrate on the good stuff and don't see when they are doing a mistake. Definitly not, but we just should see the positive side. If we do make a mistake, it's alright! We are just normal human beings so everybody makes mistakes, as long as we stand up again and try to do it better the next time.
So very long story, very short. Why don't we try to focusing on the positive side about ourselfs a little bit more and look in the mirror and don't say: I don't like my hair today or I don't like this and this about my body. Why don't we stand in front of our mirrors and say: I might not like my eyes today but I don't care. Even Megan Fox isn't look pretty every day!
So I hope a few people reminde my words the next time they stand in front of the mirror and see the positive side!

Lots of love,
Jen ♥

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