by the title of this post you already know what my post is about:
FRIENDSHIPS.
First of all: What are friendships?
I don't think you can really define what friendships are because every single person is looking for different things in a person.
For some it is the most important thing that they can trust in somebody, for others it's the most important thing that they can have fun together, for others it is the most important thing that they don't have to pretend to be someone else and for another person ir is important that your friens is a good listener or whatever else.
But a friend don't only need one of these characteristics, a true friens needs to combien all of the characteristics you look for in a friend. Only if these is the case you can call her or him a true friend.
If you found a person who has all the characteristics you look for, you shouldn't let this person go away of your life again. Sometimes it can be extremly hard to still keep in touch with them if you change school for example or you graduated and everybody is going to a different city for college. But if you still make the effort to contact the onther person via messages, facebook, whatsapp or whatever, you still will be able to keep your friendship alive. Of course, a friendship only works if you see eachother from time to time but if you're still in contact you will also work something out to see eachother.
And friends aren't one of the best thing in the world?
For me their are. I don't know what I would do without them. You always have somebody you can talk too, you can be exactly the person you are and don't have to pretend to be someone else, you can do a lot of crazy things with them and they will always be there for you if you need them.
For me I can only say, that I'm absolute lucky to have the most amazing friends in the worls (like everyone else as well :)) and I apprechiate every minute I can spend time with them! And because I feel this way, I think it is necessary to tell or shoe them this sometimes. I don't mean with very expensive gifts (because you can't buy friends!) or whatever. Sometimes a 'thank you for being there for me' or a ' I love you' means more than gifts! So don't forget to show your love towards them or how much you apprechiate them. Because friendships needs this sometimes as well!
Lots of love,
Jen ♥
