Heelllooo,
so todays blog post is about a discussion that everbody knows! It's about beeing perfect!
We all have this imagination of a perfect boy/girl in our minds but can a perfect person even exist?
In my opinion no! It's scientifically proven that a person who looks like 90/60/90 can't even exist.. So I'm very sorry boys but you can't get your perfect girl who looks like a barbie.. :( :)
But beside of that what makes a person perfect?
For me personally it't just character! As simple as it's sounds!
Of course we all are saying that look doesn't matter but be honest, look does matter! The first impression we get from a person is their look, so we can't say it doesn't matter. However we can say that it is important but we are looking more for the person who is behind this shell and thats the important part. It's soooo easy to say that look is the only thing that matters but what if the person looks good but on the other hand he or she is stupid and you can't even have a conversation with?
So lets go aways from this whole perfect look thing and look inside of the person! Doesn't it matter that you can have fun with the other person and you are really like the person and you enjoy the time the person is around you?!
So for me the disscusion everbody is having for ages is just that short! If I personally like a person than look doesn't matter and I even don't try to be perfect. Then if you are perfect isn't life very boring?
If that's the case you can't go crazy with your friends, you can't be creepy or just can't do things that normal people wouldn't do and in my opinion these things are the stuff that makes life exciting.
So don't try to be perfect! Don't try to be like Beyonce, Demi Lovato, Justin Bieber or whoever you idealise. You are perfect the way you are and don't try to be a other person because you are unique the way you are and that's good and for a reason! And even when you are saying now 'But nobody like me' that's not true! Outthere there is at least one person who likes you the way you are and wouldn't like to miss this!!!!
So try to remember this words whenever you try to be perfect, and say to yourself that this isn't something that's worth it!
Lots of love,
Jen ♥
Heelllooo,
since I started this blog I talked a lot about how you can make yourself happy, but what's about other people? You might not know this but we can also make others happy! So I thought a little bit about how you can make others happy and here is a little collection with the most important points that Icame up with:
- Cheer them up when their are feeling down
I think this one is very important so I start with this. Always when I feel down I'm so glad if there is a friend out there who try to make me smile again. No matter if it's working or not, I just think the thought is important. You can see that the person cares about you and likes you.
So if you have a freind who is feeling down just try to cheer them up and lets make them forget their problems for a second.
-Accepting a person as who their are and don't try to change them
This is maybe the most important piont in my opinion. I personally think that everbody should be accepted for who their are and for who their want to be. I know that there are so many people out there who try to change others personality or look. But why? Shouldn't we accept everbody for who their are and make them this way happy?!
- Show somebody love
I know that for example parents can be sooooo annoying and we are wishing sometimes that they wouldn't annoy us anymore but what would be if their wouldn't be there anymore? We wouldn't be happy either!
So why don't we just show somebody we love that we love them?! This don't have to be a big present or something other material, it also could be a simple 'I love you' or 'Thanks for always been there for me'. And you can see that you make somebodys day just with these simple words if they came from the bottom of your heart and you meant it this way. This person won't stop smiling the whole day and you can bet on it that the person will be happy, even if it's just for a little time!
- When you spend time with somebody who is lonely
There are so many lonely persons out there, so why don't we spend time with these? No matter if this is a friend who feels lonely because he or she break up with somebody, lost someone or just haven't found lots of freind. So why don't we bring oneself to spend time with these persons.
Also there are lots of lonely persons out there we don't think about very often. Just imagine a old man or women in a home for the elderly. Most of these persons are very lonely as well, so why don't we spend a little bit of our free time to play with them cards or go for a walk with them. When you did this once you can see in their faces how happy their are that someone spend time with them and they will always be so thanksful to you for this.
I know that this are just a few reasons and I collected lots of more but why don't we try to make at least one person a day happy with a good think or a nice word.
So if you ever made somebody happy with something you done let me know in the comments below or write me on twitter. I would love to read them! :)
Lots of love,
Jen ♥
