Little Me - Little Mix

  She lives in the shadow of a lonely girl,

Always so quiet you don't hear a word,
Always talking but she can't be heard.
You can see it there if you catch her eye,
I know she's brave but it's trapped inside,
Scared to talk but she don't know why.
Wish I knew back then,
What I know now,
Wish I could somehow,
Go back in time and maybe listen to my own advice.
I'd tell her to speak up, tell her to shout out,
Talk a bit louder, be a bit prouder,
Tell her she's beautiful, wonderful,
Everything she doesn't see.

You gotta speak up, you gotta shout out.
And you know that right here, right now,
You can be beautiful, wonderful,
Anything you wanna be,
Little Me.
Yeah you got a lot of time to act your age,
Can you write a book from a single page,
Hands on the clock only turn one way.

Run too fast and you risk it all,
Can't be afraid to take a fall,
Felt so big but you look so small.
Wish I knew back then,
What I know now,
Wish I could somehow,
Go back in time and maybe listen to my own advice.
I'd tell her to speak up, tell her to shout out,
Talk a bit louder, be a bit prouder,
Tell her she's beautiful, wonderful,
Everything she doesn't see.
You gotta speak up, you gotta shout out,
And you know that right here, right now,
You can be beautiful, wonderful,
Anything you wanna be,
Little Me

'Beauty is not about looks, makeup or clothes. True beauty comes from being yourself. The more you show who you really are, the prettier you will be.'

'You're always going to have people who agree and disagree with your life but at the end of the day YOUR OPINION is all that matters.'

'So please don't judge me and I won't judge you. 'Cos it could get ugly before it get's beautiful.'

'Even when it feels like it can't get any better. Keep your head up & smile. Don't let them breake you.'

'Haters don't really hate you. In fact, they hate themselves because you're a reflection of what they wish to be.'

'The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say YOU cannot do.'

'The definition of eautful does not require the word SKINNY.'

'Live life for the moment because everything else is uncertain!'

'I'm a strong girl who keeps her stuff in line. Even when I have tears going down on my face, I always manage to say those two words; I'M FINE.'

'Sometimes the person who tries to keep everyone happy is the most lonely person.'

'Music becomes my best friend when nobody else understands me.'

'In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take.'

'First they ignore you. Then they laugh at you. Then they fight you. Then you win.'

'It's never too late to be what you might have been.'

'All our dreams can come true. If we have the courage to pursue them.'

I need YOUR help!

Heelllooo,
today I'm not ganna write a new blog post today (I mean the way you used too...).. I know, you're all very sad about that :), but I wanna ask you something...
Do you like my blog? And if not why? Do you have any suggestions for me? Like if you would like to see a post about a special subject or do you have any tips for me?
I'm really interested in your opinion and I really hope somebody writes me something.. Because I've never got any review (no matter if it was positiv or not).. :( And I really care about your opinions..
In the last time I also thought about mixing up my topics a little bit.. I thought about writing about make-up and fashion as well.. what do you think about that?
Or if I should do a post where I gonna indroduce myself a little bit more (50 facts about me or your questions or stuff like this..)

Soooooo please, please, please, please,... write me a message with your opinion (and you do can write your opinion even if it's negativ... so I can learn for the future!) or tips or what you like to read in the future!!
You can write me here on my blog or on twitter (https://twitter.co/smilie2020)!

It would be soooo amazing of you if you would do that and you would help me sooo much!!!
And thanks so much for reading my stuff, you don't know how much that means to me!!! ♥ I never would have thought that even one person would read my things...


Lots of love,  
Jen ♥

Autumn

Heelllooo,
it's this time of season again where everything is changing!
The leaves are changing colour and falling down, but not only this, also the weather is getting colder.
If it's getting colder (and trust me, where I live it's getting pretty cold I think... :)) I'm always a little bit disappointed because I love summer and the sun. But there is a strategy I came up myself to get over this change!

- First I'm always expulse my summery clothes and change them into thick clothing and nice bobble hats. 
- I am always buying new candles with wintery/christmas smells. 
- Then I'm always makeing myself as often as I can hot chocolates (Of course you also could make yourself a coffee or tea if you prefer!). I think there is nothing better than sitting in your extremly good smelling room (because of the candles ;)) with a warm cup in your hands. :)
- I'm also changing a little bit my music I'm listen to. I tend to listen to very slow music in this season but I always remind myself to hear also to up tempo songs. Because if I'm always listening to slow songs I can get very depressed very easily! But I also like to listen to acoustic versions of songs. I think they're always a good option to the orignals! :)
- A thing I'm always looking for to do is decorating my room! I love to do that. Hang up fairy lights and decorating everythings very christmas/autumn like! I think thats the time in the year were my little room looks the best! :)
- And the last thing I like to do is to start planning christmas prestens! Yeah, I know it's October... And yes I know christmas is over 2 months away! But I'm like one of these annoying persons who like to think about presents very deeply and I don't like to give away very ordinary presents! I think about everything twice and it takes me ages until I found a presents for everyone with which I'm happy with. And if I wouldn't plan it that early I think I would go out on the 24th of Decemeber and buy everything.. And we all know what that means! :)
So I try to start as early as I can so I haven't all this stress! :)

So thats the things I like to do when it's getting very cold again... 
Feel free to leave a comment below and tell me what you like to do or write me on twitter! :)


Lots of love,  
Jen ♥

Wear what you want

Heelllooo,
there're a lot of discussions of what people should wear and what not! What people should waer if they are skinny or a liitle bit portly. But who has the right to say that?
In my opinion nobody!!
Everybody should waer what their would like to waer and where their feel comfortable in!
I personally even don't fit in any scheme because I waer what I like to waer and if it doesn't float someone's boat it isn't my problem! :)
I know that this sounds very harsch but it is you who have to feel comfortable in this clothes and no one else! So why should I waer something where I don't feel comfortable and where I'm not the person who I am?
Everybody should accept you as the person you are and don't judge you by your outlook!
Because at the end you are much more than clothes or a beautiful face!
Always remember this and the next time you're going shopping buy the things YOU would like to wear and not the things someone else says it looks good!


Lots of love,  
Jen ♥

Being beautiful in a different way

Heelllooo,
as a girl I really know how it feels to feel ugly and bad! Especially if you don't look like a supermodel or a star you look up to. 
We always see the bad things ourselves, but never the good things. We son't like our legs, our stomach, our eyes, our hair, our everything.
And if we are not so good with boys, we criticise ourselves even more and consider ourselves as ugly!

But the fact that we are forgettings is:
No one is ugly! Everyone is beautiful in their own way!!!!

Even if we don't look lika a supermodel we also can be beautiful!
There is no rule which says what's beautiful and what not! We all are beautiful!
And if you see nothing on your outside that you think i beautiful, don't forget the inside! Being beautiful in your inside is so much more attractive than on yout outside!

 
Because if you' re honest everybody knows that at first sign the look is important but at the second the person is important! 'Cos at the end you want to be together with a person who is intelligent and nice and not someone who looks nice but is a goon!

So the next time you stand in front of the mirror don't judge yourself to much because at the botton of your heart you know that you are much more beautiful inside! And that's the only thing that matters!!!

 
Lots of love,  
Jen ♥

Enjoy the little things

Heelllooo,
I think it's the nature of human beings that we always care about the big things in life. All these litte things that can make us happy as well are not on our spot and we ignore and forget them. But shouldn't we enjoy these things and hold on on them?
I know that it can be sooo hard to see aöö the little things which are good in life and don't focus on the bad things!
So for example if I'm in school I always focusing on the bad marks i get and not on the good marks! RIght after I got them I forget them and I remember my mind that the last test wasn't that good.
But why?
There are so many bad things in life, so shouldn't weconcentrate on the good things and make us a little bit happier with these things?!
So if you get a compliment do you remember it? But if someone told you that you don't look so good today do you remember this?
Yes you do! No matter what you say, you always remember the bad things and not the good ones. 
But that's so wrong! You do need to remember the good things n your mind and forget the bad ones!
I don't want to say that you should walk around with your head held up very high but I mean everbody should take criticism but remember who said it and if I personally care.
And if someone gave me a compliment take it and keep it in mind and if you feel bad or not so beautiful, you can remind yourself and cheer your day a little bit up! :)


Lots of love,  
Jen ♥