9 November 2014

Hate

Heelllooo,
two days ago I watched Gabriella Lindley's video 'Let's clear this up' and I read Zoellas blog post 'Why I stopped daily vlogging / Hate on the internet' and it basically made me very sad. I don't know if you know that but I love Zoellas videos and every evening I always looked forward to lay in my bed and watch a new daily vlog. But now she stopped doing that because so many people write such bad comments underneath her videos. And honestly, why? People like Zoe and Gabriella and all the other youtubers, do these kind of videos because they know that we viewer like these videos, we like to know whats going on in their lifes. But then there are some people who don't apprechiate what they do and (in my opinion) are jealous of the youtubers who can life their dreams. I personally started my blog because I thought I like to do it and I really do, and most of the youtubers and bloggers did the same. They started this because they thought it would be quite fun and (as they say) never ecspected anything like the way their lifes are right now. They made it this far because they never tried to push theirselves into this place they are right now. They enjoyed doing this kind of things and tried to improve theirselves in it. Because they did such a good job in this and you relly can see that they enjoying it, so many people started to watch their contant and started to like it.
Obvioulsy, with this big audiance and this populatirty there will always be people who don't like the things you do, but thats totally fine. Not everybody likes the same things and there are so many good youtubers or bloggers, so you can choose the ones you like the most. Despite this fact some of these people start to spread hate to the people they don't like. It's like being in school again. Everybody of us knows these kinds of person. The one in class or school who picks out other people to bring them down and tell bad stroys about or even lies. When your in school you call them bullies and everybody tries to stop them. But in social media this kind of standing up seems not to work. Of course the 'real' fans tell them they should not watch their videos if they don't like the contant or the person but in school its like they stop at some point, not in the internet. These people write nasty comments all the time, to different persons. And this makes me honestly very angry.
Everybody has their right to tell their mind, no problem, but you always should be aware of how you say it. Some people just write down things in a very unpolite way and offend the youtubers, with absolutly no right. They make up their minds on a vision they see on a screen and then they think they know everything about the person and can judge them. But you really can't. They don't think of the fact that the videos are edited and they edit things out, but you think you do know them even thou.
All these people don't think about how it effects the people who do it. Youtubers and Bloggers tell us about this problem all the time, but nothing really changed. Because there are still people out there who don't get it.
You don't judge a book by its cover, why you do it with people then? And why in such a nasty way? Nobody says something against constructive critisism, but I do say something against mean comments. They are unnecessary and mean against the persons who do the contant, you wouldn't like it either if someone would tell you something like this. But of course it's way easier to hide behind a screen and say things like this. Good job mate!
That's all I have to say for now. Next time you write a comment, think about the way you say it, how it can effect the other person and if you would like to get told something like this. Like in 'real' life as well!


Lots of love,  
Jen ♥

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