Shake it off

Heelllooo,
lately I've listened a lot to Taylor Swifts new song 'shake it off' and I do have to admite that I love this song. This song is just so positive and reflect exactly my point of few. If you haven't listen to this song yet, go and check it out!
Basically it's about that people are going to judge you no matter what you do or wear and that's totally true but should you care about their opinion? I don't think so! You do thinks for a reason and you do wear things because YOU like it, who cares if it floads my boat or someone elses?! The only important opinion is yours! Try a new style? Why not?! Wear a bright, outstanding lipstick? Why shouldn't I?! Wear a straiped dress even though I'm a bit curvy? Who cares?!
Hates gonna hate and always will be! No matter what you do or wear.
Sometimes the people who disagree the most with you are the people who admire you the most. The people whom would like to be friends with you or whom would like to be like you. They try to cover up their insecurity with trying to bring others down but in reality they love'd to be exactly like you and be as brave as you.
Honestly I'm not the most confident person in the world and even though I do believe in the things I write, not listening to these persons can be sooo hard. But sometimes you have to push yourself to do it and you will be suprised how good you will feel if you do what you want and don't listen to the people around you anymore as much as you used to.
When I'm out shopping I'm always challenging myself to buy at least one thing I really like but I wouldn't buy normally because I think people will think it doesn't suit me or it's a bit edgy. And for these things I normaly get the most compliments. So why should hide myself?
So if you do stand in front of your mirrow tomorrow and you're insecure whether you should wear that or not, go for it! You will be suprised in how many people will like it or even don't care!

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Lots of love,  
Jen ♥

Hello England!

Heelllooo,
I know I havn't done a blog post for quite a while but I do have a reason for this. 
I moved to England!!!

This is pretty exciting for me. I dreamed of this for such a long time and finally the time is here, I do have the opportunity to live in England for one year.
Of course this was such a big step for me. I do need to left-behind all my friends and family and I moved to a town I don't know a single person. But so far I'm loving it.
I think the british people are so nice and friendly and everything is amazing here! :D But this isn't the point of this blog post!
Since I do have big changes in my life right now, I also want to change a bit on this blog. I do want to write more regualy again and move forward with this blog! :) I also want to keep you uptodate what I do in this year.
So this is basically everything I'm doing at the moment, learning a foreign langauage, culture and way of life.
I hope you do want to follow me along in this journey! :)

Lots of love,  
Jen ♥

'The fault in our stars'

Heelllooo,
I know that there are millions of recessions of this movie and book but I just have been in this movie and I NEED to write about it.
For everybody who hasn't heard about it yet, 'The fault in our stars' was at first a book which was released in 2012 by John Green. Baised on this book Josh Boone made a film of it.

The story is basically about a girl who has cancer and is going to die but then she's meeting a young boy who is completly changing her life. I don't do describe it more because I don't want to give away anything.
After I watched this movie I felt first of all very sad but also happy and I felt blessed to have this life I do have.
I think this movie is very eye-opening because it isn't like any other movie. It isn't put lipstick on the pig and you can really good empathise into the characters (no matter if it's the main character Hazel or Augustus or their parents or friend).
I personally think that this is one of the best movies I've ever watched and I'm definitely going to watch it several times again.
I havn't read the book yet but I'm definitely going to a book shop today and buying it. If the book is only half as good as the film it'll be amazing!
So if you havn't watched or read the movie/book yet, I only can recommend it to you!!! It is definitely worth it!!!

Lots of love,  
Jen ♥

Summer song list

Heelllooo,
for this post I decided to write down all my favourite songs I like to listen to this summer! Hope you like them too and you enjoy listening to them as much as I do! :)

• 5 Seconds of summer: The whole album! I can't choose a single song! (If you haven't heard a song of them yet, 1. where have you been? 2. go and check them out, they are AMAZING! :))
• One Direction: Half a heart
• One Direction: Midnight Memories
• One Direction: What makes you beautiful (And all other songs of 1D really)
• A day to remember: If it means a lot to you
• Ed Sheeran: Sing
• John Legend: All of me
• Pharrell Williams: Happy (This song has to be in this list ^^)
• Clean Bandit ft. Jess Glynne: Rather be
• Katy Perry: Dark horse
• Maroon 5: She will be loved
• Maroon 5: Won't go home without you
• Macklemore: White Walls
• Bruno Mars: The Lazy Song

I think this is enough for now. If you would like to know more songs I like to listen to, let me know! :)


Lots of love,   
Jen ♥

Summer Activities

Heelllooo,
Summertime, holiday, no school, but what can I do now? Stay in bed all day and spend my day in the internet?
This sounds like an amazing idea, but very boring for a long time! So why don't call a few friends or one friend and do something?
I did write down my favourite activities I like to do in the summertime and who knows, maybe you get inspired by this and you get some friends and do you do the same?! :)

• swimming (pool, sea or lake) 
• bowling 
• barbecues
•  picnics 
• sitting at a lake and chatting 
• going for lunch or dinner (I do like dinner especially because it's outside very light for a long time) 
• going for a drink in the evening ( I don't mean to get drunk but sitting together, have a nice coktaail or other alcoholic or non alcoholic preference and have a chilled evening)
• do sports together (it's more fun together and you get more motivation)
• go to an amusement park
• go to concerts or to musical things in your area (I mean with that to pubs where different artists are playing -  no famous ones, just musicans) 

Lots of love,   
Jen ♥

Friendships

Heelllooo,
by the title of this post you already know what my post is about:
FRIENDSHIPS.

 

First of all: What are friendships?
I don't think you can really define what friendships are because every single person is looking for different things in a person.
For some it is the most important thing that they can trust in somebody, for others it's the most important thing that they can have fun together, for others it is the most important thing that they don't have to pretend to be someone else and for another person ir is important that your friens is a good listener or whatever else.
But a friend don't only need one of these characteristics, a true friens needs to combien all of the characteristics you look for in a friend. Only if these is the case you can call her or him a true friend.
If you found a person who has all the characteristics you look for, you shouldn't let this person go away of your life again. Sometimes it can be extremly hard to still keep in touch with them if you change school for example or you graduated and everybody is going to a different city for college. But if you still make the effort to contact the onther person via messages, facebook, whatsapp or whatever, you still will be able to keep your friendship alive. Of course, a friendship only works if you see eachother from time to time but if you're still in contact you will also work something out to see eachother. 
And friends aren't one of the best thing in the world?
For me their are. I don't know what I would do without them. You always have somebody you can talk too, you can be exactly the person you are and don't have to pretend to be someone else, you can do a lot of crazy things with them and they will always be there for you if you need them.
For me I can only say, that I'm absolute lucky to have the most amazing friends in the worls (like everyone else as well :)) and I apprechiate every minute I can spend time with them! And because I feel this way, I think it is necessary to tell or shoe them this sometimes. I don't mean with very expensive gifts (because you can't buy friends!) or whatever. Sometimes a 'thank you for being there for me' or a ' I love you' means more than gifts! So don't forget to show your love towards them or how much you apprechiate them. Because friendships needs this sometimes as well!

Lots of love,  
Jen ♥

Sucky Blogger

Heelllooo,
at first I have to say such a massiv sorry for not posting anything on here for ages! I'm soooo sorry about that but in my life there where quite a few changes and things going on so I hadn't much time. I don't try to excuse my behaviour but sorryyyy...
For now I want to change it!!! I do have a lot more time in the next months so I do want to start again writing new posts. I try to figure out something at the moment! :) So be brave with me. :) I also thinking about daily blogging (is this a word? :D), but I'm not too sure about that yet, because I don't know if I can make it! :))))
But yeah, I hope I see you very soon and you're still reading my blog even though I have been very sucky!


Lots of love,  
Jen ♥